duplicated nationwide, a movement they hope to facilitate. They asked themselves: What if mature Christian empty nesters would entertain young couples for a whole weekend utilizing their children’s empty bedrooms, sharing biblical principles for families along with their experience and advice? In this case, they would stick to basics-Christian Family 101: our relationship with God (individual and family); the interactions between spouses; parenting principles; practicing evangelism1with “neighbors.”

Although their original passion focused on medical families like themselves while they were in the midst of parenting, the Brandts started their experiment mixing medica1 professionals with couples from all walks of life. Dr. Brandt recalls one couple in particular, whose life together was improved through their weekend getaway.

"When Mike and Jan swaggered into our home on Friday evening, they were impressive," he said_ "Mike's square jaw, beefy neck and muscular physique spoke volumes. Jan, a slim brunette, also appeared athletic and fit. They worked out regularly and looked sharp.

"But on Sunday morning during a family goal setting session, Mike's eyes moistened and his voice broke as he confessed to throwing and breaking things in a fierce fit of anger directed at Jan,” Brandt added. "Despite her deep love for him, Jan tearfully confessed to adding tension by taunting Mike when he’d lose control of himself. Other retreaters in the room reticently nodded as if they'd been there and do something similar. They took turns sharing hurts, and discussed opportunities to improve their families. Then they asked to be held accountable by the group. Healing began while they hugged."

How it works

Ice-breaking is the main objective for Friday evening; with snacks, self-introductions, jokes and laughs while retreaters get comfortable with each other. Young mothers often need

Chuck Bemm, M.D.—Pediatrician
"Getting away, even for a short time, can refresh and refocus ones mind and heart."

Amy Bemm —"The time alone to reflect, recommit, dream, and have fun together was very rewarding for our marriage."